Dear Young Boys and Girls,
I am happy to know that all of you have grown up and studying in some schools , colleges and institutions where co – education is provided for boys and girls equally to study together irrespective of caste , creed or blood. You are fortunate enough to study here for the sake of building your career, for the sake of gaining knowledge, for the sake of interest you have had for a long time to be an important part and parcel of it.
Dear friends! Opportunity never comes again. Avail it marginally and achieve your aim / goal / objective of your life which you have targetted before you join it. Always remember your mother who has given birth to you, has taught you to walk and speak. Always remember your father who has spared time and money for your proper nourishment and better education. Always remember your younger brothers and sisters who love you most, respect you most and expect a lot from you. Don’t indulge in any bad habits. Be good and do good .
Beautiful is everything you see and find there but the world you enter after a few years on employment, will be more beautiful than these trifle things. Love everyone but don’t fall in love with anyone – if you are a boy , with a girl or if you are a girl , with a boy because once you fall in love – you will go falling and falling gradually into such a ditch from where you cannot come out and after that ? Know love , its stages , its effects , its results , its consequences , its boundary , its limitation , its order , its discipline , its guideline , its social ethics and what not ?
Love is something else which cannot be defined in black and white. It is a feeling that comes from within one’s heart or mind. It is abstract. It is eternal too. Here what I talk about love, it is wholly, solely and exclusively is between a lover and a beloved, none else. When we talk about love, it is a sensational attraction of a man or woman towards some opposite sex i.e. a man towards a woman or vice versa, a boy towards a girl or vice versa. It is absolutely between young girl and young boy, young woman and young man.
Love takes place irrespective of ages, caste, creed or blood. At first stage it starts with eyes to eyes. One and the other see each other casually, then constantly, feeling about each other is conveyed through facial impression from one to the other that takes place as a sort of acknowledgement. When it is acknowledged, it is quite reciprocal. In case it is ignored or rejected, it is absolutely one sided love. It is normally from female side. It is crucial part of the affair of love that one thinks that the other loves him but in fact does not at all.
In my opinion if such thing happens in one’s life, he or she must forget it for ever. One must not be mad after such love which is absolutely one sided. One must not be depressed, one must not commit anything wrong under excitement or emotion or provocation Life is very precious. Once gone, gone for ever. So utilize every moment of your life for yourself and for one and all concerned in right perspective for a right cause at the right time. It is your sheer duty and responsibility too towards your family, your society and your nation – so called your motherland. The eyes and lips of human beings are very sensitive organs of body. Eyes also have their own language. They can speak even. They can express what one feels about each other.
It is one important part of love that is transmitted. The other important part is at receiving end or point. The eyes on other end must understand that of the one end, only then, attraction towards each other starts with. Once it (attraction) is started, each is anxious to see, talk and exchange views about each other. Two different sex attract each other as two different poles of magnet. They are always anxious to see , meet , talk , touch , catch hold of , embrace around , kiss and so on … All such acts are of exciting nature – provoke the sexual organs of body that male compels the female for .. ?.. Here male’s excitement or emotion is much higher than that of the female. As per natural law she cannot express or invite first. Through her body language male can guess whether she is willing or not, she agrees to or doesn’t. Once desire so awaited is fulfilled, there is no end of it, rather it is the beginning of the end. In fact sex has no end at all. It is so abstract that it can only be realized or felt. The age, the period or the time you are passing through, can you imagine love without romance and romance without sex?
It is a subject of research. It is a topic of analysis. It relates to psychology. It is a matter of philosophy. One may differ in opinion from the other, but what about the conclusion at the end ? Everyone is free and may opine his or her independently. First of all I am of the opinion that love, romance and sex are three different dimensions of one’s life. They are co – related , they are netted together but even then there may not be sex due to certain reasons attributable to the affair of love in between the couple in question. There is order – to obey, there is discipline – to maintain, there is guideline – to follow, there is social ethics – to observe and what not ? – in order to succeed in life like success.
Dear friends! After going through this letter particularly written for you do hope you have now understood what I mean to emphasize. “ Be good and Do good ” should be your mission in life. Only then the very purpose of my writing a letter to you will be really served. I want to see all of you as ‘Good People’of your family, of your society doing ‘Good Work’for yourselves, for your family and over and above the needy people of the society where you live in and will lead your life as soon as you are employed somewhere to earn your bread and butter.
With best wishes!
Sincerely yours, Durga Prasad.